There’s shade, naughty one-liners, Divine Nine references, and black-ass debates. Insecure is never more fun than when all four of the girls are together, and we get our first taste of that in this episode when we’re introduced to Tiffany (Amanda Seales) and Kelli (Natasha Rothwell) for the first time at a house party. Here’s the best of Insecure, ranked from good to perfect. From Malibu to Coachella to everywhere in between, we got y’all. The episodes below represent the best moments Insecure has given us over the past three seasons: the ones that are so real we feel triggered and argue with one another all week on Twitter about the ones that make us laugh every time we even think about them and even the few that made us shed a thug (Yoda) tear.

Three seasons later, the series is still at the top of its game.

Along with help from executive producer Larry Wilmore and co-creator Prentice Penny, Rae gave us the show we’d been waiting for, one that documents the humor, frustrations, joy, and heartbreak of being young and black right now. Issa Rae had garnered audiences’ love and respect through her web series Awkward Black Girl and debut book of the same name, but would HBO allow her to keep things as authentic and black? After all, the network had never built a comedy around millennial black women. When Insecure first premiered, a lot of us didn’t know what to expect.

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